The Unfiltered Truth: Why Self-Accountability is Your Ultimate Superpower
From Mississippi to the boardroom, I learned the most profound changes start and end with one simple, often overlooked truth: self-accountability.
"Be accountable to yourself. If you say you’re going to do something then do it! Whether it’s holding true to a schedule or simply prioritizing things. This, in turn, leads to someone a person can actually count on."
A lot of coaches and consultants like to talk about strategy, about market shifts, and about the next big thing. Don't get me wrong, those are all pieces of the puzzle. But, if I've learned anything on my journey, from the dirt roads of Mississippi to the boardrooms of Apple and Netflix, it's that the most profound changes start and end with one simple, often overlooked truth: self-accountability. It's the bedrock of everything.
The Foundation of Trust: Starting with You
I've always said that authenticity is a superpower, and truth-telling is non-negotiable. How can you expect others to trust you if you can't first trust yourself? This isn't just about showing up for others; it's about showing up for you. It's about taking a deep, honest look at what you say you'll do versus what you actually do.
For years, I've practiced over-delivering on promises to avoid procrastination. I've realized that it's about understanding your own blockers and doing the hard, internal work to address them. My journey has been about embracing who I am—non-binary, assigned female at birth, dealing with co-parenting and divorce, and overcoming adversity. When I finally got comfortable with my full, unfiltered self, that's when the real impact started to happen. It's a process of deep self-analysis: writing down what went wrong and what you'll do better, and treating yourself like a corporation with clear KPIs.
The Discipline of Doing: Scheduling, Prioritization, and Relentless Execution
Accountability isn't a feeling; it's an action. It’s about the daily grind of holding true to a schedule and ruthlessly prioritizing. My calendar, for instance, is a non-negotiable. If it's on the calendar, it happens. This isn't about being busy; it's about being effective.
We live in a world of overwhelming options, and everyone wants simplicity. That's why laser focus is paramount. Instead of trying to do a hundred things okay, focus on three things and do them exceptionally well. Whether it’s developing clients, writing strategic blog posts, or updating systems, this focused effort ensures high impact.
Effective execution also means building systems and processes to support your goals. Think about your administrative tasks—the social media management, the email follow-ups. Learn to delegate and automate what can be done by others or by technology. This isn't about avoiding work; it's about maximizing your capacity to drive your businesses forward and achieve strategic goals.
The Ripple Effect: Becoming Someone a Person Can Actually Count On
When you consistently do what you say you're going to do, a powerful ripple effect occurs: you become someone others can truly count on. This builds trust, not just internally, but in all your relationships—be it with clients, partners, or your team. We encourage founders to put rigor around their processes, not just because it's good practice, but because it builds the confidence of investors. This is how you foster long-term partnerships and ensure success.
Ultimately, the goal is to make a difference, to maximize human potential, and to subvert systems that create oppression. That can only happen when individuals, starting with themselves, embody radical accountability. Because when you do that, you're not just building a career; you're building a legacy.
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